A few weeks ago, my seven year old daughter Abbie got off of the school bus in tears. She had been intimidated by a fifth grade boy who seemed to have the gift of bullying. As a parent, seeing a child in emotional turmoil due to the violent insecurity of another is not a pleasant experience. The natural inclination to insulate and protect my daughter in this situation was very strong. However, after conferring with my wife, it was decided that the best course of action was to not contact the school, but rather to debrief with Abbie and seize a teachable moment about how to handle one of life’s inevitable forces…INTIMIDATION.
Nehemiah, one of the greatest leaders in the Old Testament, dealt with ongoing waves of intimidation throughout his God-given mission of rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem. In fact, the main theme of Nehemiah 6 is intimidation; specific forms of intimidation were thrown Nehemiah’s way in repeated attempts to thwart his leadership and mission. Here are the various manifestations of intimidation faced by Nehemiah:
Intimidation through threats of physical harm
Nehemiah 6:1-4 When word came to Sanballat, Tobiah, Geshem the Arab and the rest of our enemies that I had rebuilt the wall and not a gap was left in it–though up to that time I had not set the doors in the gates–Sanballat and Geshem sent me this message: “Come, let us meet together in one of the villages on the plain of Ono.” But they were scheming to harm me; so I sent messengers to them wiht this reply: “I am carrying on a great project and cannot go down. Why should the work stop while I leave it and go down to you?” Four times they sent me the same message, and each time I gave them the same answer.
The threat of physical harm for Christian beliefs and practices in America is pretty rare compared to what Christ followers must endure in many other countries. Here are just a few sobering statistics about the persecuted church:
*More than 70% of all Christians now live in countries where they are experiencing persecution. In some cases EXTREME persecution.
*Over the last 20 centuries, more than 70 million Christians have been martyred–killed, executed, murdered–for Christ.
*More Christians have been martyred in the last 100 years than all other years since AD 30 combined.
*More than 200 million Christians in over 60 nations face persecution each day, 60% of these are children.
*150,000 to 165,000 Christians are martyred each year.
Jesus clearly taught that discipleship involves the risk of persecution and physical harm. John 15:18-20 says, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: ‘No servant is greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also…”
One of the amazing traits of Nehemiah’s leadership is his ability to stay focused on the mission in the midst of intimidation and persecution. He said, “I am carrying on a great project….why should the work stop while I leave it and go down to you?” There are times when the church is tempted to shy away from radical mission living for trivial reasons (we don’t have large enough facilities, we don’t have enough money, we lack the right people, etc.). We can learn something from Nehemiah’s fearlessness in the face of intimidation. His focus was on obedience to God, no matter what the cost. May God raise up followers of Jesus Christ who are more focused on mission and obedience than on intimidating forces of resistance.
Intimidation through false accusations and rumors
Nehemiah 6:5-9 Then, the fifth time, Sanballat sent his aide to me with the same message, and in his hand was an unsealed letter in which was written: “It is reported among the nations–and Geshem says that it is true–that you and the Jews are plotting to revolt, and therefore you are building the wall. Moreover, according to these reports you are about to become their king and have even appointed prophets to make this proclamation about you in Jerusalem: ‘There is a king in Judah! Now this report will get back to the king; so come, let us confer together.” I sent him this reply: “Nothing like what you are saying is happening; you are just making it up out of your head.” They were all trying to frighten us, thinking, “Their hands will get too weak for the work, and it will not be completed.” But I prayed, “Now strengthen my hands.”
The intimidation for Nehemiah now comes in the form of threatening words. A vicious rumor has the power to bring great levels of disturbance, anxiety, and distraction. The Bible describes one of Satan’s pastimes as accusation (Rev. 12:10). False accusations were thrown at Nehemiah in the hopes that fear would bring paralysis, thus stopping the completion of the wall project. We can learn something from the way Nehemiah handles this form of intimidation. He briefly states the false nature of the accusations and then turns his thoughts to God in prayer. He prays for strength as the opposition mounts yet another attack. We have all had the experience of someone spreading rumors about us or falsely accusing us of wrongdoing. These situations can be very demoralizing and they will weaken our resolve if we listen to the false messages. God will help us stay the course in these difficult moments as we cry out to him for a sense of perspective and truth in the minefield of rumor.
Intimidation through false religion and deception
Nehemiah 6:10-13 One day I went to the house of Shemaiah son of Delaiah, the son of Mehetabel, who was shut in at his home. He said, “Let us meet in the house of God, inside the temple, and let us close the temple doors, because men are coming to kill you–by night they are coming to kill you.” But I said, “Should a man like me run away? Or should one like me go into the temple to save his life? I will not go!” I realized that God had not sent him, but that he had prophesied against me because Tobiah and Sanballat had hired him. He had been hired to intimidate me so that I would commit a sin by doing this, and then they would give me a bad name to discredit me.
The intimidation in this situation was meant to lure Nehemiah into doing something that was incongruous with the command of God. In speaking with Aaron the priest, God had stated, “But only you and your sons may serve as priests in connection with everything at the altar and inside the curtain. I am giving you the service of the priesthood as a gift. Anyone else who comes near the sanctuary must be put to death.” Nehemiah was not a priest, he was a governor. Thus, he was not allowed in the inner area of the temple. The attempt to get Nehemiah to hide in the temple may have been successful if Nehemiah did not have an understanding of the Law of God. However, Nehemiah’s deep devotion to God prevented him from falling into the deceptive enticement of Shemaiah. The irony of this situation is that an advertisement for safety (”Let us meet in the house of God”), if acted upon, would have turned into a disaster for Nehemiah. An attempt at self-preservation would have led to self-destruction. False, deceptive teaching is often human-centered in its orientation and focused on achieving self-actualization. True theology is God-centered and is focused on people being changed by the power of God’s grace, not through creative human power and ingenuity.
One of the ongoing challenges for followers of Jesus Christ is to be faithful to the mission that God has given, even when facing continuous waves of intimidation. May God give you the strength to persevere, no matter what kind of ”bullying” comes your way.